Motherhood is often described as one of life’s most beautiful journeys—but what happens when that journey looks nothing like you imagined it would be? Maybe your birth plan wasn’t followed in any way you expected, breastfeeding didn’t come easily, or your baby’s temperament isn’t what you expected. Perhaps you’re grieving the version of being a mom you thought you’d be and wondering why it feels so hard.

If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many moms experience a disconnect between the expectations of motherhood and the reality that comes. Learning how to cope when motherhood doesn’t go as planned is an important part of healing healing process and the way to find peace on this motherhood journey.

Bringing a new life into the world is a beautiful experience, but for many moms, the postpartum period can be challenging. Amidst the joy and wonder of welcoming a newborn, some mothers may find themselves struggling with intrusive thoughts – unwelcome, distressing, and often disturbing mental images that can be deeply unsettling. Today, we'll explore what intrusive thoughts are, why they might surface during postpartum, and most importantly, provide moms with practical coping strategies to manage and reduce these intrusive thoughts.